Reciprocity and gratitude

reciprocity

By Jamie Migdal. CEO of FetchFind

While contemplating a topic for this week’s Pet Industry Insider newsletter, it dawned on me that the answer was right in front of me (as it so often is).

The collage above is me with a bunch of different people. The top left is a lovely FetchFind customer, the top right is a women in technology colleague, and the bottom pic is me talking with Maxine Clark,  the founder of Build-a-Bear, at her home during a dinner party for the current PWE cohort. If I’d remembered to take a pic (!), you’d also see a photo of me with the women  who run IBPSA when they were in Chicago for the Pricing for Profit workshop.

Why am I talking about my social calendar? 

Well, that’s because it all represents two key principles of my life: relationships and collaboration. Every single picture here not only represents a relationship that I’m proud of, but also one in which I actively participate in reciprocity of thought and experience.

There are times that I feel so overwhelmed with gratitude that I trick myself into wondering whether I deserve all of this collaboration, support, and love. Then I remember that you get what you give, and I feel better. Honestly, my day isn’t complete unless I know there were at least three times during my waking hours where I gave of myself, whether with advice and expertise, with a professional recommendation, or with an introduction to help someone on their journey. It really means a lot to me to be able to help someone’s world be a better place and enhance their career or personal life in some small, hopefully meaningful way.

To that point of gratitude, at the end of the week I like to look at my calendar and write thank you notes to the people who helped me. I don’t always get to all of them (and definitely not on time!), but I do my best. And since dogs can’t receive thank you notes, I always make sure to dedicate some time to think about the animals that I am able to impact through my work and relationships. 

 Drop me a note about the things that you do to recognize and thank the greatness of the people and animals in your life.  As always, I love hearing from you.

With gratitude,

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Jamie

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